chaos vs joy ..

It is a kind of chaos .. not for me but in general .. people believe that life is always (I dont know how) in chaos in many ways .. they stick on some unbelievably inessential details and make their lives unbearable .. I really do not perceive why some try to make life harder than the on-going one but they are good at doing that .. they always find the worst one .. not the worse one I can say .. more than that .. the worst! They can easily screw up everything they have .. and believe me it is really easy for them to ruin whatever they do and have ..

On the other side of the life .. we see the optimist ones .. they believe everything has its own solution .. every problem can be solved .. their motivation is linked directly with the concept of being patience .. try to see the positive ways of everything they do and try to learn different lessons out of every experience they have .. they are really open-minded ones .. the critism concept is very important and they absolutely listen whatever you say even if it is a kind of critism .. they try to add new ideas to their minds and build new ones out of the small ideas they have by getting them together in their "modern" minds .. they are really farsighted and try to improve themselves together with the society they live in ..

You see the differences .. Which one do you think is the eligible one? Is it really a difficult question to answer? I dont think so .. but you should realize your potential first .. you should understand what you can do or not .. Every person has different abilities .. What we can do is to find the best way for ourselves to become more and more happier .. Believe me it is not that much difficult .. the only fact you should have is believing yourself .. This is just the beginning .. The rest is shaped by the decisions you make ..

Do not forget .. "The joy you have is hidden inside the life itself!"